my boss doesnt allow me to do most things that my brain can, is he malware?

That sounds like he's just doing assholey things.

no i mean like i could burn down the whole building but he wont let me, he thinks its some sort of "arson"

Based on prior experience, i doubt it's him constructing those laws in the first place. In any case, why would you want to burn the building down in the first place?

i never said i wanted to, i just said that i could

Well, if you don't want to, why does it bother you that you can't?